David Friedman: very smart guy, poor social skills
(typical nerd), unfailingly courteous, nice guy,
makes conscientious efforts, sometimes rather
undignified and excessive efforts, to fit in
Graham Woodland
David is one of the good guys..
Quite so.
You, James, appear to neglect the simpler possibility
that David bears an aura of likeability not because he
is trying too hard to fit in(!!), but because he
really does like people and find them interesting by
default.
He is markedly more confrontational and less eager to
please with people who are not part of the group -
therefore some of his motives are less admirable and
less dignified than liking people and finding them
interesting.
I also cut my friends, and even my regular sparring-partners,
more slack than J Random Stranger. Partly this is through liking
or camaraderie, but also partly because I'm less likely to
misunderstand them.
I don't wish to further extend the specific conversation about
David, as I fear that would-be analysis of third parties too soon
becomes presumptuous in their presence and snake-toothed in their
absence, and I find it more comfortable to err on the side of
safety. But I thought I had things that needed, once, to be said.
I find people interesting too - but generally I find
evil and madness the most interesting aspect of people -
understanding people does not necessarily result in me
sympathizing or respecting.
My interests are the reverse of yours, then. I think goodwill
and sanity are as much more various and interesting, as they are
difficult and rewarding. I agree with you about the last clause
wholeheartedly. To really understand real rottenness must surely
always be to loathe it the more -- if one is not rotted from
within through the process.
I'd *love* to know what orthodoxy covers everybody
from hardcore Communist to militant anti-statist
conservative
The only conservative I have noticed outing himself in
this group as a conservative is the very far from
militant Ric Locke, who describes the orthodoxy in this
group as "stifling" and "Leninist".
I don't think many Communists have outed themselves, either --
the only one we once had has long left for other pursuits,
finding the atmosphere aggravating and oppressive. Which I also
thought was a shame.
Any other conservatives keep their mouths shut and their
heads down.
Julian's sentiments are often most eloquently conservative, in
one of our best and most time-honoured cispondian veins. I have
just discovered by Googling that another poster I thought was
clearly conservative does not so self-identify, though she surely
has not exhibited much patience with the views you and Ric
dislike so much. It also turns out that I was so wrong about the
other 'obvious' candidate that I didn't even hit the dartboard.
So I will give you some ground on that one: there are fewer
*vocal* conservatives here than I thought, and therefore
presumably fewer conservatives all told.
There is, of course, a clear reason in conservative thought why
constant chatter of politics should be strictly for the squirrels
and radicals. Despite my own disposition to chatter, and my
reasons for doing so, it is even a logic to which I partly
subscribe. So I'd always expect conservative talk to be
*somewhat* under-represented, as compared with progressive or
(any) radical.
I also beg leave to disagree with your implicit assumption that
noise-making equals useful victory in anybody's ears but the
noisy one's own. Disdain, or going off to get a drink and
ignoring the loud boor who is hovering strategically over the
nibbles like an ignoble guardian griffin, does not equal
concession -- whatever the persuasion of a particular boor may
be. But we have had this exchange before, and no doubt you will
find it no more convincing than last time.
Any militant anti statists in this group, including
myself, keep their views fairly quiet, knowing that
plain speaking will get one howled down by a screaming
mob.
And if what you say here is not plain speaking, then I guess you
do well to do so.
I do not love the state, and I am not specially subtler about
saying so than it amuses me to be about most things; but more
generally, I do often bite my teeth about Grandad's table-taboos
of politics and religion in this place, as well as one or two
other things which tread needlessly on very specific personal
corns of people whom I esteem.
It is fair comment that I am not militant. I do not do militant,
about anything, unless all other choices are vicious or unbearable.
I *do* dislike the fact that our little local problems so impair
my ability to come right out and talk about some of my writing
issues. An it please you, you may even ascribe this reluctance
with the WNIP to the activities of a stifling Leninist claque.
But I tell you plainly, that is not even on the edges of why I
can't talk about my fantasy Communist Commonwealth here with any
profit. Ockham's Razor disinclines me to multiply the entities
of explanation.
The group dynamic is just well buggered when it comes to certain
topics, and I have better things to do than waste my time
embuggering it further. I notice from Lucy's brief re-appearance
that she appears to have come to an almost *exactly* similar
conclusion, from a political stance almost diametrically opposed
to my own. And I think -- though again I doubt you will agree --
that this is no accident at all.
Who did you have in mind as a militant anti statist
conservative?
I actually had you in mind, and our perspectives on "fairly
quiet" appear to differ somewhat. (Predictably, that is how I
would describe my own level of restraint, which I guess you'd
describe as inaudible.) I don't know anybody else who exhibits
the whole trinity. Yes, I know there are some things you are not
conservative about at all; but it sure looks like the overall
effect from over here.
If you find the label risible or offensive, then I concede your
superior authority in this case, and withdraw it.
But "from Lucy to James", or "from Aqua to Ric", or even "from
Zeborah to Julian" are pretty *wide* distributions by most
people's measure, whether they be skewed or no. The problems
here have been real enough, lark knows, but I can't construct a
party line out of them for love nor money.
Think that's as far as I want to take that either -- writing to
go, new places to do. That's how I see it, though.
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Cheers,
Gray
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